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Home: To be a better sisterThe first thing that you can do to help motivate yourself to become a better sister is by having a long talk with yourself and with your siblings. When you have this talk you will notice that there are going to reasons that will come out that will bring you two together. You will find these reasons to want to be even a better sister. You will find these reasons as motive to get closer. As you discover that the years that separate you do not really separate you two because you have a very special bond. Sisters tend to be brutally mean to each other, but it is a woman's way of saying "I love you." Most women find the need to protect their other sisters, especially younger sisters, but they do not always go about it in the right away. Another factor that you should think about for motivation is the fact that you may miss opportunities to make a relationship with your sister real. You may lose your sister at any time and you don't realize that until she's gone. Then you have the rest of your life wishing you knew her better or that you had that sisterly love between you two. Why live regret when you are able to right things now. You can go to your sister and let go of everything that has stopped you from getting closer. You can talk and work through your issues together and in the end come out stronger and closer. If you need some motivation to make up with your sister, you may just need to think about her as your sister. Your family and family should be fighting over. Family should be loving and caring for each other. You will miss so much if you lose the sisterly bond that was once there when you two were younger. You will find that without your sister you won't be able to carry on your life and still feel fulfilled. Think about all the things that you could be missing. All the talks that you are missing, and all of memories that you are missing out on will make all the difference. You will find that there is so much more to gain from reviving your bond between each other than you could ever possibly know. You are missing out on so many more things in life by not seeking out a relationship with your sister. You will miss out on all of the events and possibility on seeing nieces and nephews. Do you honestly want to be locked out on all of that? Don't you think it's time that you find the motivation to call your sister and talk things?
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